anaconda update all possible packages?
TL;DR: dependency conflicts: Updating one requires (by it's requirements) to downgrade another
You are right:
conda update --all
is actually the way to go. Conda always tries to upgrade the packages to the newest version in the series (say Python 2.x or 3.x).
But it is possible that there are dependency conflicts (which prevent a further upgrade). Conda usually warns very explicitly if they occur.
e.g. X requires Y <5.0, so Y will never be >= 5.0
That's why you 'cannot' upgrade them all.
To add: maybe it could work but a newer version of X working with Y > 5.0 is not available in conda. It is possible to install with pip, since more packages are available in pip. But be aware that pip also installs packages if dependency conflicts exist!
A safe way you can try is to add conda-forge as a channel when upgrading (add
-c conda-forge as a flag) or any other channel you find that contains your package if you really need this new version. This way conda does also search in this places for available packages.
Considering your update: You can upgrade them each separately, but doing so will not only include an upgrade but also a downgrade of another package as well. Say, to add to the example above:
X > 2.0 requires Y < 5.0, X < 2.0 requires Y > 5.0
So upgrading Y > 5.0 implies downgrading X to < 2.0 and vice versa.
(this is a pedagogical example, of course, but it's the same in reality, usually just with more complicated dependencies and sub-dependencies)
So you still cannot upgrade them all by doing the upgrades separately; the dependencies are just not satisfiable so earlier or later, an upgrade will downgrade an already upgraded package again. Or break the compatibility of the packages (which you usually don't want!), which is only possible by explicitly invoking an ignore-dependencies and force-command. But that is only to hack your way around issues, definitely not the normal-user case!